How to Pickup Women
There are an infinite number of ways on how to approach a women and there an infinite number of instances where those ways have ended up failing, because the man just couldn’t do it right, or that the man just fumbled, or that he just ended up sounding or acting strange which in turn just creeped the women he was trying to pickup.
So why is it so hard for men to successfully approach a strange or hitherto unfamiliar woman and to try and pick her up? I mean it’s not rocket science but a lot of men end up failing wretchedly when they attempt the task.
What Picking up really means
In a man’s dictionary, picking up a woman is trying to impress her in the first go. Trying to establish that he is the best she could find in the present situation, the current place or just plain everywhere. Men try to establish themselves as the supremo uno of the current lot and in trying to do this they end up making a fool of themselves.
Picking up a woman is really plain straightforward, for the person who knows exactly what he is doing. A successful pickup starts happening when the women shows a genuine interest in you and is actively listening to you when you strike a conversation with her, when she actually takes some time to continue the conversation.
So why is it so hard for men to successfully approach a strange or hitherto unfamiliar woman and to try and pick her up? I mean it’s not rocket science but a lot of men end up failing wretchedly when they attempt the task.
What Picking up really means
In a man’s dictionary, picking up a woman is trying to impress her in the first go. Trying to establish that he is the best she could find in the present situation, the current place or just plain everywhere. Men try to establish themselves as the supremo uno of the current lot and in trying to do this they end up making a fool of themselves.
Picking up a woman is really plain straightforward, for the person who knows exactly what he is doing. A successful pickup starts happening when the women shows a genuine interest in you and is actively listening to you when you strike a conversation with her, when she actually takes some time to continue the conversation.
Simple Steps on How to Pickup Women
· Confident Approach – Half of the men fail when they approach a woman, because they just don’t exude confidence. A woman is immediately attracted to a confident man and not to a man who fumbles on his approach. He ends up losing the women’s interest even before he has had a chance to introduce himself properly. So be confident no matter how beautiful the girl is.
· No Pickup Lines – Now that you have approached her confidently and that she has responded, don’t mess it up by using a pickup line. A pickup line is passé and is no longer a sure shot way of picking up a woman. Cheap or clichéd pickup lines just end up creeping up a woman.
· Make her feel Comfortable – A woman is only attracted to a man who makes her feel comfortable. Men can accomplish this by being themselves and not trying to fake a sense of persona or by trying to put up a facade. Another way of making a woman feel comfortable is by using humor. A good sense of humor is something almost every woman is looking in a man.
· Confident Approach – Half of the men fail when they approach a woman, because they just don’t exude confidence. A woman is immediately attracted to a confident man and not to a man who fumbles on his approach. He ends up losing the women’s interest even before he has had a chance to introduce himself properly. So be confident no matter how beautiful the girl is.
· No Pickup Lines – Now that you have approached her confidently and that she has responded, don’t mess it up by using a pickup line. A pickup line is passé and is no longer a sure shot way of picking up a woman. Cheap or clichéd pickup lines just end up creeping up a woman.
· Make her feel Comfortable – A woman is only attracted to a man who makes her feel comfortable. Men can accomplish this by being themselves and not trying to fake a sense of persona or by trying to put up a facade. Another way of making a woman feel comfortable is by using humor. A good sense of humor is something almost every woman is looking in a man.